The Women...

Since I was thinking and writing my paper for the past few days, besides drinking more tea, I also spent more time watching films and soap operas to kill my pain. One of the films I enjoyed very much is "The Women", the leading actress is Meg Ryan. I know many people don't like such kind of movies. The topic is quite old. Husband cheats and the wife figures out a way to get her new life. But still I love it. Usually the movies played by Meg Ryan will not disappoint me. She always plays some kind of messy women. I love that kind of characters, just like another character I love very much, Liz Lemon in 30 Rock. Sometimes ago I loved reading other people's personal experience of relations. I find that China, once the most conservative country, is even more open than the western society now. Until recently I finally figured out the abbreviation of "ons" in many Chinese people's articles. It should be the abbreviation for "one-night stand". I am sure many people who use ons are not good at or even don't use English at all in their daily life. However "ons" becomes quite popular and "ons" becomes known to all. Now I almost spend no time reading other people's fighting stories against their spouse's lover, because I feel pretty bad and feel life is so complicated and hopeless after the reading (although previously I thought I was able to learn some lessons from their experience). 

I seldom talk about love affairs with others. However, the other day, when a married friend talked about her husband and their relationship, I shared with her something about my love affairs. I said a lot to cheer her up, tried to find some excuses for her husband behavior and asked her to see the bright side of life. However, she told me that I should not expect marriage to be as sweet as it once was after some time. And she told me that I am too simple and naive about marriage and relationship. And she also said that if I did not learn how to run a relationship and make great effort to hold it, my personal relationship would get into crisis quite easily. I guess she is right. 


Anyway, I hope this world does not become crazier and crazier and more and more people find that loving each other and getting old together as a couple is an extremely beautiful thing...